Messy situation with best friend... now benefits?

Try to tell him how you feel. You don't try to keep misleading him by holding his hand, touching him in any other way and making out with him. You should try to control yourself from flirting so much with him and making out with him. My last girlfriend used me out of lust (she was single for months, only been on one date or a few dates before we met) and for company. She didn't see our relationship lasting more than a few months but she didn't tell me that. I was with her for nine months. She also caused a lot of problems in our relationship. Be with a guy who you will not end up using and will not feel like he's being used until another guy comes along in your life.